If the ejaculation of a man has already begun, then no effort of will to stop it is impossible. But you can delay her offensive. For this, sexologists recommend several methods that can help to overcome premature ejaculation on their own.

First, there are special creams and “brake ointments” (dicainic, novocainic), which lubricates the glans penis, thereby reducing its sensitivity, and the excitement increases more slowly, and ejaculation is delayed. But the partner must always wear a condom, otherwise the ointment will reduce the sensitivity of female genital organs.

Secondly, a man, feeling that he is already very excited, can suspend frictions, wait a little, so that the excitement decreases slightly, and then resume them again. And so several times...

Ejaculation disorders are one of the most common sexual disorders in men. Complaints about the duration of sexual intercourse are made by more than half of the patients who turn to sexopathologists. Many men who do not contact doctors, but who are concerned about the duration of the sexual act (that is, the time from the introduction of the penis into the vagina and the beginning of frictions before ejaculation). According to A. Bova, E. Savina, these men are from 45 to 56%.

Ejaculation can be early (before the introduction of the penis in the vagina), premature, or accelerated (if the man can not prolong sexual intercourse for more than one minute), and difficult (delayed), in which the sexual intercourse is protracted and ejaculation (and, consequently, orgasm, sexual satisfaction) may n...

To sex therapists with complaints of sexual dysfunction disorders (sexual dysfunction) are most often addressed by people of young and middle age – from 25 to 45 years.

Disorders of the sexual function of men can occur in severe form, which leads to mental depression, a decrease in self-esteem, loss of self-confidence, not only as a sexual partner, but also as a person. Sexual dysfunctions lead to a decrease in working capacity, violations of intra-family relationships and even the disintegration of the family.

About the sexual disorders, many men turn to doctors, who in the past with potency were all right, and they are looking for a sex therapist to help their sexual functions recover. Often the initiator of a referral to the doctor is the patient’s wife.

Another category of patients are...

The modern follower of the teachings of the Tao of love Zhang Zhonglan compares impotence with colds – unpleasant and annoying, but there is nothing to fear, and it is easy to warn if a man knows how to do it. “If men perceived impotence as prosaically as a cold,” he writes, “it would be much less. The only case of temporary impotence can activate a man deep seated fear of constant impotence. “

The most important thing that every man should know, regardless of what his potency is, is that erectile dysfunction is completely overcome, if it has psychological reasons...

If you still have problems with erection, you are intermittent, but before each sexual act you are afraid that you can fail, and you can not communicate, then some tips will not hurt you.

First tip – stop thinking about the penis and erection, do not control the condition of your penis, neither visually (with a look) nor physiologically – listening to your sensations, swelling penis. Forget both the penis and the erection.

The second tip – do not be afraid to make new mistresses. With a new partner you can do everything much better than with the old one, who already knows about your weak erection. With a sexual neurosis, as described above, the more a man is attached to his partner, the more likely that he will have a paradoxical reaction. With a new partner, there can be a normal erection...

Most modern foreign sexologists and some domestic sexologists consider adult masturbation even useful. In some cases, it is really necessary. The method of sex therapy, developed by sex therapists for the treatment of sexual disorders, necessarily includes masturbation. It is believed that if a person does not know his body and ways of effective stimulation, it negatively affects his sexual functions and the ability to experience orgasm. This is especially important in the treatment of sexual coldness in women, since the vast majority of men have experience of masturbation.

But what has been said applies to adults...

When the libido moves from the Platonic to the erotic stage, the adolescent has an interest in the intimate side of the relationship between the sexes, erotic literature, and photographs of erotic content.

In works of fiction, adolescents like the description of the rendezvous scenes and explanations in love. An adult in these descriptions may not find a hint of sexuality, but they excite the imagination of the teenager and encourage him to erotic fantasies.

This interest can, like an epidemic, spread to a team of teenagers with normal psychosexual development. Only children with delayed psychosexual development and hormonal insufficiency remain indifferent to him.

Erotic stage is expressed in the desire for tenderness and affection – gentle words and touches. According to G.V...

Erection is a functional increase in the volume and tension of the penis. Erection allows you to perform sexual intercourse and enter the seed into the vagina. It occurs as a result of increased arterial blood flow into the corpus cavernosum, an increase in pressure in the arteries supplying the blood to the penis, ie, a simultaneous decrease in the outflow of venous blood. Erection is the result of a clear interaction of nerves, arteries, veins and muscles. Violation of the filling of cavernous bodies with blood is most often due to disorders of the nervous system that regulates sexual function. In rare cases, erectile dysfunction can be associated with the pathology of blood vessels or perineal muscles, which to some extent also participate in erection.

Erections can arise as a simple re...

Universally use the term “sexual potency”  it has two meanings. One of them, approaching in meaning to  the concept of sexual attraction, involves the ability to  sexy reactions, primarily the frequency of this ability,  measured per unit of time. The second meaning of the term  implies the ability to perform certain functions.

Sexual potency, understood as the ability to sexual reactions, measured by the frequency of sexual response per unit time, or rather, the ability of the organism to these reactions. Sexual potency, thus, the more than often the body is capable of sexual responses in the unit time (day, week, etc.). This understanding of sexual potency converges with the notion of sexual desire and sexual excitability...

Prostatitis

Prostatitis is an inflammation of the prostate gland, accompanied by its swelling and painful sensitivity. Often this disease occurs secretly and leads to a violation of sexual function and spermatogenesis.

In addition, prostatitis is very often accompanied by vesiculitis – inflammation of seminal vesicles.

Each patient has this disease provoked by a combination of several unfavorable circumstances and has many risk factors. The first and main factor is age. The older the man, the larger the prostate. And the whole trouble is that with age, not only does the prostate gland increase, but the likelihood of such an unpleasant disease as prostatitis. And over the last decade, this disease has plagued more and more men.

Moreover, recently this disease has somewhat “grown younger” an...